I'd go back to an OE style pump that puts out the correct flow and pressure, I'd find it hard to believe that the engineers at Chrysler got it wrong. The reason you blew the o-ring out was because the pump tried to achieve it's flow goal, couldn't and built severe pressure in the filter. Everything after the filter was restricting it's flow capability and unfortunately the filter acted as the weakest link. Forget cutting springs - the last coil wrap is formed flat to fit against it's mounting surface and channel the compression evenly across all coils. You may or may not get away with cutting it but just look at the way valve springs are designed to seat squarely. Besides, who wants to guess at oil pressure sustained by cutting a pressure relief spring. Sounds down right cheap and redneck unless your engine is of no value - how much does an oil pump cost anyway? Are you sure there isn't something else going on here like a partially plugged oil gallery just after the pump? A lot of people aren't aware of how much stress is put on that small tab at the pump and gear on the oil pump drive rod that runs some of these high pressure/high volume pumps. Snap that or chew the gear up and it won't just be a replacement oil pump you're paying for. Many pumps require a different type of rod and gear composition to drive them, after all they are a positive pressure pump with little to no fluid slippage.