to marry or not to marry
I come from a large family, 5 Sisters 3 blood/2 adopted & 2 step Brothers... My parents were divorced when I was 18 months old, my mother remarried a total car guy Bob my step father, when I was 5 or 6 y/o they were together until my Mom died a few years ago now, from MS complications, now Bob goes from one Fat a-- fugly trollop Loser gold digger to Biker trollop loser bit-h, I guess he's just lonely now, can't cope with out a woman around to scream & yell at him.... Almost everyone I know & almost everyone in my family, except me, my kids & an older Aunt & Uncle, one brother & my nephew have all been divorced, some several times & then remarried {some are freaken' idiots too}... I don't need or want that crap ever, too much damn baggage, to much wasted Lawyer fees & spousal support, to many freaken' issues.... I've been happily single & have remained unmarried for all my 53 years, I've had a few live in girlfriends, what a freaken' hassle !!, way too much drama !! & woman are way too damn expensive & moody to live with !!...LOL... I'm surrounded by estrogen anyway already...LOL... But on a much better note, I do have 4 children, I love dearly, the oldest 1 lifer Navy boy James & 3 great girls, twins Rachel & Rebecca, all girls now married to car guys "all of them, funny how that happened"...LOL... Only one kid is actually my blood, Jessica she is the youngest, their mother Lisa {a gorgous 5'7" brown haired green eyed 115# angle}, she died of kidney & liver failure, shortly after Jessica was born... I have raised & I adopted all the other 3 children, they were all very young at the time {I consider them all mine}, she was married twice, before she met & moved in with me, to some abusive a--holes, I loved having her & the kids around & they loved to travel with me all over the USA racing, kind of a built in Pit Crew...LOL... Lisa she didn't want to get married either, we had a great relationship with out it, we agreed "why ruin a good thing with a worthless piece of paper", we were legally by Calif. Law {Lee Marvin law} married any way, after living with each other for over 7 years anyway, all the kids have had my last name for 25+ years now, all are very well educated, all have their degrees & have great jobs/families & all from a "single fathers" upbringing & morals, it wasn't easy either... My Pops is a 3 time loser, his dollar is worth maybe $0.25 cents now...LOL..., my oldest sister is a 3 time loser {shes a moron magnet}, another sister is a 2 time loser {she likes young guys}, I could go on & on... I do like chasing the shorties/skirts every once in a while, but at 53 y/o, I don't really need a woman to make my life whole, I do like having them around, but it's nice to send them home after a while too...LOL... It works for me !!... I have enough issues/drama with my elderly old alky Pops, to add any more crap &/or issues to that right now.... I can't complain I've had a pretty damn good life & I'm not now or ever been married, nor do I have any regrets... P.S. Get a good dog {Lab or Retriever}, they're loyal for life & love you unconditionally, if you have to have a companion to keep you company... Never trust anything that bleeds for 7 days a month & doesn't die...LOL... sorry guys/gals, I had to do that