I guess I'm the lucky bastard "in some ways at least", I have raised a few women's kids for them though, before breaking up... I've been really close, with in a couple of weeks to being married a couple of times, but I never pulled the trigger "YET", I always found out some type of bad stuff, just before the wedding, like, a drunk, drug abuse, cheating or just flat out liars, like 1 lady said she had never been married before & was married 4 times before...LOL... My family has many multiple marriages on all sides & I have seen what $hit happens from divorces, to one of my 2 brothers 4 of 5 of my sisters, my mother once & my Pops 3 times divorced & a common law wife all took him to the cleaners... No wonder why I'm so cautious...LOL... I've been lucky to not get stuck with a big mistake "Yet", I don't really think at 52, I will ever find a good women that doesn't have a ton of baggage now, but I'm still looking for a good women, that's not a drunk, druggy, liar or multiple divorced, unfortunately there's not too many good women, here in the sticks....