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[JacobEXE]

i have to rant and rave. when i was younger my dad had promised me his land cruiser, it was was sweet he had won many mud bugging competitions in it, he has a chevy 327 in it 35inch custom rims, dual exhaust, a conversion plate to fit the toyota 3 speed and tons more. well when i was nine he committed suicide and my uncle came down and took it. i havent talked to them in nine years since my dad had died. they never called to see how i was after he died nothing. and it just makes me livid to know that they dont give a flying F*** about me. im just soo pissed right now.

I WILL MAKE ONE THATS THE SAME, SOMETIME IN MY LIFE.

 

[Bear R.-]

hi Jacob.check this out.."In the last days there will be people whose only purpose in life will be to satisfy their own ungodly desires"..(Jude;1:18)..The Lord is the only one you can count on and thats that..sorry for your lose and God Bless you Jacob...take care my friend..Barry...(Bear R.-)

 

[sublimegtx]

sorry, thats sux.

 

[roadrunnerman]

Seems like there are more and more peolple that only care about themselves and don't give a rat's a@# about anybody else. Karma can make life a bitch.

 

[RustyRatRod]

Although it sounds tough, sometimes you just gotta cut the strings and let it go. My wife and I have done and done and done for her two kids for almost the entire 18 years we've been married. And I mean DONE. Gave them a place to live, food to eat. Helped them fight court battles when they got in trouble, gave them both vehicles. You name it. But now, because we literally couldn't give them money one Christmas because we didn't have two nickels to rub together, they got mad and we haven't seen our grandchildren in over four years. Haven't heard from them either, but we consider that a good thing now. Sometimes you just gotta let go.

 

[MoparMitch]

Although it sounds tough, sometimes you just gotta cut the strings and let it go. My wife and I have done and done and done for her two kids for almost the entire 18 years we've been married. And I mean DONE. Gave them a place to live, food to eat. Helped them fight court battles when they got in trouble, gave them both vehicles. You name it. But now, because we literally couldn't give them money one Christmas because we didn't have two nickels to rub together, they got mad and we haven't seen our grandchildren in over four years. Haven't heard from them either, but we consider that a good thing now. Sometimes you just gotta let go.

Could be the best money you ever spent back then.

 

[coloradodave]

Jacob, that's a long time to hang on to anger. You know what will make you feel better? Go out and do something for somebody else. There are most likely some deserving old folks in your neighborhood who would benefit from getting their leaves raked, lawn mowed, porch rail fixed or some other chore that a young person like you could do easily. You'd be surprised at how this will buoy your spirit and theirs. People and family will sometimes take advantage of you. These situations can sour you on life or be character builders. Be the bigger person. Take them in stride and vow to not treat other people like you've been treated. Great men have come from similar situations. Be one of them...

 

[RustyRatRod]

Dave that's a damned good idea.

 

[ply64post]

Jacob

Believe me in what I am saying, let it go move on it will consume you. Life is short and there are so many better things to to do than dwell on this. Dave, Rusty,and Bear have very good information and besides that be a better person than he is.I am a believer that things will take care of themself.
It is a give and take world today and sadly today it is mostly takers and people that the think they are deserving !! Get on with your own projects it will make you feel better.

 

[JacobEXE]

Jacob, that's a long time to hang on to anger. You know what will make you feel better? Go out and do something for somebody else. There are most likely some deserving old folks in your neighborhood who would benefit from getting their leaves raked, lawn mowed, porch rail fixed or some other chore that a young person like you could do easily. You'd be surprised at how this will buoy your spirit and theirs. People and family will sometimes take advantage of you. These situations can sour you on life or be character builders. Be the bigger person. Take them in stride and vow to not treat other people like you've been treated. Great men have come from similar situations. Be one of them...

i do alot of community service arpund here, i went and did a 92 year old's yard about two weeks ago thats where i stumbled acroos the vega wagon, a 70' cougar, a 29 model t, two 65' bronco's and a couple trucks

 

[coloradodave]

Good for you, Jacob. Keep up living a good life and things will come to you. Lots of good advise from my fellow posters, some of who have probably been in similar situations. Keep your head above the crap that's flowing by...

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Jacob, have you ever sat down and written a letter to your Uncle to let him know how much you're hurt over his actions? Doubt that it would help with the Toyota, but it might get you a few pictures of your Dad if you ask nicely. How does your Mom feel about all this?

 

[99ss]

I would offer only this for advice as I am the last person to make rational decisions.. But you need to talk to them about it and clear the air for your own peace of mind. You dont have to be hurtfull but you need to express yourself to them for your own good in order to be able to move on or it will keep eating you up. It might not go as you want but at leat you will have it off your chest and be able to move on after

 

[jessipup]

are you this very same Jacob?
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my stepdad is selling the belvedere ive been working on for 1k ):

i would, but theres no way he would sell it to me. the even worse thing about it is he said i could have it when i graduate which is 5 months away and now he sells it

he wont sell it to me because he thinks i wont ever do anything to it. even though im out there every friday and saturday working on it .
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Save your money, Buy your own dam car! And quityerbitchin.
It will build character. And maybe you'll stop peeing and moaning that folks won't give you something for nothing