For those following, I'm back again. Still no success.
Jacked the car up, let it idle and watched the wheels. Found both hubs were bent, as the wheels and drums both wobbled as the wheels went around. Both sides were like this.
That being said I chose to replace them. A friend of mine gave me good take off drums with good hubs in them. We popped the hubs out of the drums, put them on the car and drove it. No change. The car feels smoother at speeds up to 69mph, but at 70 it's exactly the same. 100% the same.
Put the turd on stands again and ran it up to speed. Everything looks fuckin hunkey-dorey under there running at speed. No driveshaft wobbly crap, no wiggly wheels, no bouncy castle exhaust or motor or trans. Nothing. Looks like a regular car under there, just all shiny and new.
Shakes the whole damn car apart. Heaven forbid it hits 80! It puts the vibrating chairs at the mall to shame! Repositions both mirrors for me with how bad it shakes. Let off the gas and coast down to 69, and the shaking gets worse!
So as usual, I'm at a loss. I've sunk $1500 and a year into this stupid issue. I've never seen something so God awful retarded. I've got a 3 hour trip coming up Wednesday that I'm taking this car on, and I'm loving the thought of it already.
Rant over but I feel my frustration is justified. Pardon my expletives if this site shows them.