We had both Dish and Direct TV back and forth (my wife likes to switch things for the intro rates and then switch again, etc but I don't like the cancell sales pitch hassle) and one really wasn't any better or worse. We've been on Dish for the last 5 years because it's about $10 a month cheaper. They both (as well as cable, which we have for internet) dick you for an extra $5 here and an extra $2 and $3 there, which they NEVER tell you unless you read all the asterisks and ask specifically what your actual bill will be - ALL INCLUSIVE. It is NEVER the price they advertize.
Anyway, the Dish is fine unless it's really cloudy. Which CAN SUCK if it clouds up with 10 laps to go.
My brother had HughesNet for internet and was paying $80 a month for the same speed (down) as DSL (what my mom pays $30 for) and up speed was dialup.
We have Vonage for phones, and if we didn't have a bandwidth hog of a (step)son, it would be fine. When he's really hammering the connection, the phone cuts out for the other party. It's advertized as $15 for the limited minutes, but I'm actually paying $22, which is still better than my last Verozon bill from 5 years ago, which was $35 and long distance was extra.
Our son keeps wanting us to get a bundle- phone/TV/internet, but everytime we "do the math" it comes up a wash on cost, or about $5 more or less than what we currently pay, without any of those hidden charges.