I would say it's a joint 100% failure.Is this really the education system’s job? The blame squarely falls on the parents.
I would say it's a joint 100% failure.
Wait 'til she sees her paycheck....HA !!
What are these taxes, why are they taking my money every time !!!!
Why are the breaks so short !!
Lunch is only 30 min. long, WTF !!
I can't even cook my own dinner !!
I'm so tired !!!
LIKE>>>>LIKE>>>>LIKE>>>>LIKE>>>>LIKE
Useless.
This is what is taking our places when we go, this country is F**KED.
Is this really the education system’s fault? The blame squarely falls on the parents.
Nick, you know my story. Wife and I led by example, set expectations of same. How we produced such a lazy, unmotivated kid still has us shaking our heads four decades into the process. Her response is that after seeing how hard the two of us worked, she wasn't going to make the same mistake. So be it, but she knows she's getting only a small sliver of our estate.Thanks, I'll never get that 1min 29sec back.
Mom and Dad can do a far better job than that IMO and IME...
My son in law. My wife wanted to talk him out of it. Shrink we were seeing at the time said don't, the world has masochists with rescue fantasies, cut yourself a break. They've been married 13 years. I've taken good care of him.It could be worse. Imagine being the guy thats attracted to that, then marrying her ? View attachment 1545652
Mom and Dad can do a far better job than that IMO and IME...
Nick, you know my story. Wife and I led by example, set expectations of same. How we produced such a lazy, unmotivated kid still has us shaking our heads four decades into the process. Her response is that after seeing how hard the two of us worked, she wasn't going to make the same mistake. So be it, but she knows she's getting only a small sliver of our estate.
Nick, you know my story. Wife and I led by example, set expectations of same. How we produced such a lazy, unmotivated kid still has us shaking our heads four decades into the process. Her response is that after seeing how hard the two of us worked, she wasn't going to make the same mistake. So be it, but she knows she's getting only a small sliver of our estate.
Notice I said "can" and not "will". Honest efforts of great folks with good intentions don't always produce desirable results.
This is just my opinion here, but sometimes it flat out is just who the person is an individual that makes all the difference.
Some of the greatest kids came from the worst upbringing and vice versa.
We all each have a choice to make individually. Am I gonna go get it? Or hope someone else gets it for me?
Parents can and do have a huge impact. But the kids ultimately make their own decisions in the end. I can only hope and pray my own do the right thing not only today, but tomorrow too.
Nothing personal there Adam. You know that. You and your wife are great people. Need more like you folks around
Saw this up close and personal when I was growing up. Sister and I were both adopted, incredibly different biological ancestors. So we are raised in the same family. She grew up to be a train wreck. Finally convinced our long suffering dad that nurture couldn't always overcome nature.my Mom and Dad were VERY old fashioned, and did everything to keep all of us on the straight and narrow........ I wasn't a bad kid, but looking back; I was obviously a handful...... every child is unique
Nick, you know my story. Wife and I led by example, set expectations of same. How we produced such a lazy, unmotivated kid still has us shaking our heads four decades into the process. Her response is that after seeing how hard the two of us worked, she wasn't going to make the same mistake. So be it, but she knows she's getting only a small sliver of our estate.
I got the complete history of my biological parents a few years back. I came out almost exactly like them, almost nothing in common with my adoptive family.Yep. See this a lot too. No amount of “good environment” can fix the way a person is wired. You cannot run from your DNA.
She needs a good sugar daddy that makes her earn her keep! She is a looker but man I’d get real tired of it quick!