You might want to consider where someone is in life. In high school I had a 69 Chevelle SS and a 68 LeMans, both 4-speed cars. I modified and raced them, mostly on the street and loved owning and driving them. Then came college, marriage, and then a career. Finances didn't allow me the luxury of a hot rod and for 4 years after getting married we lived in a condo with 2 outdoor parking spaces, only 1 covered. Then came the entrepreneurial years that involved significant debt that I carried for a couple of decades. I was 56 years old when I bought my Slingshot, 59 when I bought my Vette, and in the last 2 1/2 years I have managed to acquire 6 driver quality classics. So was I a car guy for the 40 years in between? Hell yeah. A broke-***, hard-working car guy trying to scrabble my way to financial stability. Luckily for me it paid off in the end but it was a looong road. Car guys don't always have one in the stable.