Here's my 2 cents...
There was a time when diesels were worth the extra money, but not any longer. 12 years ago, a diesel upgrade was about 3 grand and diesel fuel was 25 cents a gallon cheaper than regular. Back then, it was easy to figure out when your payback would be. For instance, back in 2004, I switched from Ford V8 powered work vans to diesel Sprinter vans. The Ford vans would get 15 mpg & the Sprinter would get 23-25. Those 5 cyl diesels would run forever with little trouble and they would save me money.
Today, a diesel upgrade can be up to 8 grand higher and now diesel fuel is 25 cents higher than regular, plus, you now have much more emissions crap on it that not only robs fuel mileage, but adds more in maintenance costs. In the case of my Sprinters, they changed from the inline 5 to a V6 diesel several years ago and the mileage went town to 19 mpg. Plus, we were starting to have problems with the DEF that sprays into the exhaust. That stuff is so corrosive that it ruins pumps and is a $1,200.00 repair. Last year, I dumped all my work Sprinters and bought Fords with the V6 Ecoboost. I even bought a p/u truck with the Ecoboost and I had zero trouble pulling a B-body on a trailer with it. It appears that our V6 Eacobeasts get the same mileage as our old V6 diesels, and the savings fuel costs is something that you see right away.