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Gettin divorced!!!

rsd859

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I havent been on here for quite sometime. Ive been going thru a divorce and its the best and worst. I was so afraid she was going to try to take my bird or try to get me to sell it. Sure enough last week we had a meeting and our biggest fight was over the the kids. But we came to an agreement and i keep both of my cars and my retirement which im going to have to cash in to start over. But its worth it to be happy and I can focus on restoring my baby for my little girls.
 
oh my you got lucky there..good luck, it's rough starting over...
 
Congrats RSD I'm sure it's for the best and hopefully you guys will be able to get along for the girls sake and both be happier and make a better situation for the little girls
 
I have a couple of friends that went through this and they say it's the best thing that ever happened to them. Wish you luck.
 
You can always make more money. Happiness has no price tag. I feel your pain. Just talked to a lawyer to get my "ducks in a row". Looks like I'm gonna need a few more duck$ before I pull the pin.
 
Going through this myself since January... will be legally divorced this Jan coming up... No kids for me so that made things less messy... As long as it's mutual just keep it amicable and try to keep the lawyers out of it as much as you can because they will rob you blind (including your bird)
 
Having gone through this a couple of times, I learned that a lot of counties have an arbitration person who can facilitate the divorce if both parties agree to work together. This keeps the lawyers out of it and saves everybody money. Good luck to any of you going through this painful process. Remember, when things get heated, you once loved her enough to marry her.
 
I wish you luck bud, Ive never been through one but it seems most don't end with a fare well supper, Sounds like its not to bad for you and i hope your new start brings the happiness that has no bounds! Good luck with the restore of the bird for your girls!
 
Been there myself, but my ex was a money hungry, stealing, lying, cheating, class A BITCH who took everything she possibly could. Took almost everything I had and left me with my 2 boys and the shell of my house. Absolutely the best thing that ever happened to me. Things will get better for you even though it might not seem like it now.
 
It does get better in time. Things can be replaced, She letting you keep the bird, WOW! Things sound about as amicable as it gets. Once the dust settles, you still have your daughters, keep your focus on them and their best interest. Best of luck in happiness!
 
rsd859, I'm truly sorry to hear you're going thru this type stuff... I know quite a few, including some of my own family that are multiple time divorcées, I give my Pop's crap about being a 3 time loser...LOL.., 2 of my sisters too... I lost my kids mother a long time ago now, after my youngest girl was born {never been thru a divorce myself, but seen enough of them}, I know what it's like to raise kids on your own, especially girls & it ain't easy, I won't blow smoke up your skirt... I'm also from a divorced/dysfunctional family too, my parents split up when I was 18 months old, they all got along pretty damn well all things considering... I had several step mothers {Pop's 3 time loser} & a great step father, my beloved ol' Pops, was basically just a sperm donor until I was in my teens... I hope you get all you want in regards to your children & can spend as much time as you can with them... I hope all goes well for you too... Keep your head up, it's probably all for the best, I'm glad to see you got to keep your cars too... Welcome back to FBBO
 
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