Right, I have BRAKES!
Don't ask, I have no idea what worked. I did absolutely EVERYTHING:
-All cylinders open, gravity bleeding for 5 hours - didn't work
-With only one cylinder open, I pressed the pedal and let it return EXTREMELY SLOWLY...
-Pressed the pedal several times with cylinders closed
-Used vacuum pump
etc, etc, etc...
All I can say is that the combination of everything did the trick and at some point I had fluid coming from the cylinder and could bleed it properly.
Apart from a mistake I made because I was very concentrated - I let the fluid run out in the master cylinder... stupid....
But all seems well... I'm just not entirely happy with the rear driver side, it feels it's getting a bit seized after braking? Had for force a bit to loosen up again. I just tried it all using my hand and no wheel in place, will go for a test run tomorrow (finally!)
(Rear brakes are still all old stuff apart from cylinders because I bought the wrong shoes. )
I will replace the lines soon, I just needed the car moving because I need the space.
As always, thank you all for the help, suggestions and knowledge.