that is exactly what i am trying to do gather all parts and let someone assemble
one piece at a time due to $$$$$
Okay. I understand. But your plan is very flawed, and I believe it will be an epic fail.
With your level experience, here are the likely outcomes:
If you buy a bunch of parts based on internet recommendations and take them to a quality & reputable 2G hemi shop, one of three things will happen. 1) They will not take your business, 2) They will take your business, but give no warranty, 3) Won't use half of your parts for one of several reasons.
Alternatively, you go to an okay, value shop. They put your stuff together. There will be no warranty. There will be problems, you will be stuck with no place to go.
I promise you, with your level of experience, the value path will cost more, will cause you tremendous consternation, and your schedule will be turned upside down. Not only will you be pissed at your machine shop, you'll be pissed at individuals here because you'll think we gave you bad advice. But in reality, you will have miss used or misunderstood the advice, or the advice was simply wrong because you did not explain the situation accurately.
Save up your money and go to a hemi expert.