What threaded adjusters do you have. Typically .040 preload is one turn on a common 3/8 24 threads per inch. If your breaking push rods something is wrong. Length, coil bind, excess spring pressures. Stroker has nothing to do with it.I have a 426 Max wedge and a 542 440 Stroker. Same problem you are having. I called the Cam Hotline at Comp cams The tech told me to go .050 to .080 past zero lash. This take some calculating for your Rocker setup but in my case comes ort to 3/4 to 1 turn. Still have clatter. Same cam in both engines. In the Stroker engine completely assembled by the engine shop, after 5 miles the end broke off of one of the push rods. New set 5 more miles another end broke off. I put a set of Diamond push rods and the problem went away