IMO......as there are several carb "experts" contributing opinions, I'll just add my comments.
FIRST.....the carb is too big. As fuel mixture is a distribution function, large capacity carbs will result in low mixture velocity; low mixture velocities will result in uneven fuel distribution, which is also influenced ny manifold runner configuration (length and shape). The plenum, space under the carb, will cause a pressure drop and subsequent velocity drop of the fuel mixture.
True, timing and cam specs will influence mixture velocity as long overlap cams promote more exhaust gas left in the combustion chamber resulting in dilution of the incoming fuel charge. Once the idle mixture has been established, one possible solution to the mixture distribution issue MAY be to stagger jet fuel metering, either by a combination of jets, step up rods, depending on manifold runner length. There is NOTHING AS IN ANY HARD AND FAST RULE that prohibits stagger netering. Fuel pressure and volume applied to the carb as well as float levels will effect operation....stay within manufacturers guidelines......in this case, the "my buddy's rules" do not apply.
The problem is complex and likely that a complex solution will result.....nothing as simple as a few degrees of timing or an adjustment of delivered fuel pressure will fix. The spark plug coloration is a result of fixing mixture issues and MAY require a slight heat range revision of your "favorite" brand.
The first thing I would do, is to go to a 650 CFM carb....my preference is Holley, but it's your vehicle, and see if the mixture distribution issue (velocity) is resolved....then proceed .....and with DOCUMENTED changes of each change or revision........just my opinion of course....
BOB RENTON