I am in an odd place when it comes to movies. I have a good memory. Really, really good, people say photographic but that is not the right word. So A lot of movies I avoid, because really, I don't need something stuck in my head the rest of my life. Example-
When I was much younger, I had some close friends tell me we should all go see Saving Private Ryan. I knew what it was about, I protested, but cave to peer pressure or they talked me into it or whatever, we went on a Friday night.
I SHOULD NOT have gone to see that. I can still see it if I think about it. I knew what it was and I did not need that type of situation shown to me, sometimes I think maybe some people do so they realize what it is, and I think there is a market for that type of thing where people find it fascinating and can't accept it as a reality or that those types of things really did happen to people and they had to live with it if they survived.
So, this is also why I never watched Titanic. Why would I subject myself to the vision of hundreds of people in terror and losing their lives?
Beyond that however, let me explain why Titanic is such a lady-favorite:
It is written out as a long story about a perfect love story from a modern young woman's point of view. Think about how society is now with women. Here we have a young lady that gets the attention of the young hunk and does her thing(cheats), gets treated like the only special lady in the world. She gets what she wants, then the guy dies, and she gets to keep all the money and live out her life doing whatever she wants. She gets the hunk for her fling, then gets to walk away without reprecussions and gets rich on top of it all. It's the modern woman's ultimate fantasy. Yeah the people drowning is sad, they make special screen time to show the noble deaths of the characters and this adds the tear jerker aspect to round out the ultimate love fantasy for them.
So fellas, if your lady ranks this at #1, might want take that into consideration a bit. My wife of several decades thinks Rose is a stupid b##ch and won't watch the film again.
On a lighter note, I won't watch any Will Smith movies again. Recent activity from him aside, none of his movies are really all that good that I have seen and I have zero desire to view them twice. Oh, and the newer Ghost Busters with all the women. OH MY what a mistake and waste of my time.