I use the OEM retainer on ALL Mopar engines, a rubber seal that comes in the Fel-Pro gasket set, and the seal gets installed even with the parting lines on the mains (not offset). I will hex myself, and say that I have never had a rear main seal lead on me. One thing to remember is that the side seals for the seal retainer are not like the old Mopar kind that swell up. Fel-Pro finally got rid of the stupid pipe cleaners, and are now including rubber side seals. They can be difficult to install, but take your time. I use moly assembly lube on the side seals (both sides), on the block uprights sides, and in the retainer grooves. I put the side seals on the retainer with maybe a 1/4" below the bottom and let the seals start in the block. Don't worry if they want to look like a "V", the important part is that they start before the retainer does. Once the retainer starts, tap on the retainer and side seals carefully to get them all to go down. Once the retainer and seals are home, wipe all of the lube off. The last thing I do is to apply some Ultra-Grey" RTV in the vertical space between the retainer and the block (the sides). Also, when I put the rear main seals in the block and retainer, I put a small bead of the "Ultra-Grey" across the back rib of the seal so that it will seal between the block/seal and retainer/seal. I am sure you know this, read about this, or whatever, but this my procedure for the rear mains on all engines (2pc seals) that I do. I have installed one of the "Gee-Whiz" one piece seals that you cut and rotate on for a Pontiac, and what a POS in my personal opinion.