car starts and runs perfect at neutral, very responsive to throttle,
-revs up good at neutral
- does start cold perfetly
when put in gear....
- when hitting the gas pedal too fast it stalls out
- when hitting gas pedal slowly it drives okay
- while driving you can floor it and it won´t stall
- when you stop at a light it idles perfect
- when sarting of a light and hitting gas to fast it stalls
- it starts right up after stalling
So when a load is applied things change for the worse, most things you mention are related to manifold vacuum, which relates to a change in timing due to the vacuum advance is changing things.
You need to check your idle timing with vac. advance disconnected, once you know that, connect the vac. advance again and check timing again so we can estimate better what timing your engine runs with at what conditions.
Also your total advance need to check (vac. advance disconnected), total advance and at how many rpm is it "all in".
Your initial is 15*, so when you floor it you only have a small advance in timing (without vac. advance) and, depending on the AFR, a lean mixture does not work together with that timing. Peak cylinder pressure will occur very late and the piston is already very far in the hole to give any punch on the crankshaft.
As Geoff already mentioned, up the initial timing and adjust your carb idle screw to bring down the rpm again.
With some cam aim for 900-950 rpm idle in Park/neutral.
Also let us know what rpm you get if you drop it in Drive.
The observed rpm drop indicates how your torque converter is behaving, either being loose or tight at idle.