It is a matter of balance.
A properly balanced car will be predictable when you make sudden steering actions. An improperly set up car will surprise you and in a bad way.
Roll stiffness is reduced when you add a sway bar to either end. That usually helps but just like a big, rowdy cam in a stock, low compression engine, there are limits as to how big you should go.
Using a BIG rear bar with either a small front bar or no front bar is a bad idea. The car will feel okay at low speeds but as speed increases, the tendency to spin out gets worse. A rear bar has two effects. It reduces body roll and in extreme cases, reduces actual traction on the inside tire in a turn. A sudden jerk of the wheel at speed can result in sending the rear of the car sideways which can be very hard to control.
Those guys that “drift” are skilled at riding that edge where the car looks like it could spin out at any moment. For them, the tail happy oversteer is desirable. For most regular guys in a street car, too much rear bar can leave you nervous.