I can appreciate your thoughts of tossing this topic out on the forum as the general gist is friends we've made and some we've come to trust on the forum being very helpful solving car issues. On the other hand this is a tough topic that get's ya all sorts of replies from one end of the spectrum to the other as has been posted. I always know, as I've learned the hard way, being around as long as I have and having been through some strange antics w/ family and close friends encounter there is ALWAYS TWO sides to da story and ya hear one side even though you can be pretty well convinced you got the entire story. This reminds me of a close buddy I grew up with, like brothers, and we don't speak to each other anymore sad to say. It had to do with his horrific antics with his now long ex and then dating new females making a complete *** of himself wanting my advice and taking none of it...as I watched him crash and burn. All along telling me BS, lies, etc. that I eventually learned royally pissing me off. Among the tips as I learned dating don't ever be a friggin underling, easy to maneuver, kiss their feet (unless you like that sort of thing), ask for their apt key, keep your clothes there, etc. Until you fully get to that point which if you have a fully functioning brain know when that should happen. Problem is advice you think makes total sense doesn't to another. There's my 2 cents.