Any one of those gasket would be fine, and you won't notice any difference between them. The 0.042" and 0.051" are the oem felpro, while the 0.039" is the HP felpro gasket. For the price, I would stick to the pair in the FelPro full set 260-1001. If you opted for the Mopar Performance P4286754 set from Mancini Racing, the CR would be 10.14:1 and an additional $25 plus shipping.
While it seems some people like these SuperPerfomance gaskets, the head gaskes from them are the same as the Mopar Perfomance ones, AND $10 more expensive.
If you choose to use the steel shim gaskets, you will need to use copper spray on them before you install them. Spray both sides, let it tack up, then install. ONLY use copper spray on the steel shim gaskets, and NOT on the composite FelPro gaskets as they are installed dry.
While it seems some people like these SuperPerfomance gaskets, the head gaskes from them are the same as the Mopar Perfomance ones, AND $10 more expensive.
If you choose to use the steel shim gaskets, you will need to use copper spray on them before you install them. Spray both sides, let it tack up, then install. ONLY use copper spray on the steel shim gaskets, and NOT on the composite FelPro gaskets as they are installed dry.