The red circled spot is the Pitman arm. That is one. The Idler arm is on the right side. It needs to come loose too.
Some just remove the cotter pin and 3/4" nut, then wedge a "Pickle Fork" in between the center link and Pitman-Idler arm.
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This works but often destroys the grease boot. A "Gear Puller" also works.
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Regarding the gaskets....Everyone has an opinion and what worked for Willie may have leaked on Leon. I've tried a few different brands and still deal with leaks. I am going to try "Superformance" gaskets next.
On the 383 in my other Charger, I just used Fel Pro gaskets and this sealant:
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It is not cheap but it is the best that I have used. The 383 barely leaks anywhere. The engine from my red car does a bit though. I'm working on that though.