I do think it's odd how the tailshaft sits in the trans tunnel. Looking at the motor from the top down it doesn't appear to be overly cocked to me.
I'm aware of the age and wear on the car. I don't dispute that. All I'm disputing is this idea of flinging money at a problem hoping it goes away. When I bought my truck it had two shot motor mounts in it. The motor would literally lift right up out of the bay and come at you if you tried to rev it. It never vibrated at all, except for at idle. So I don't believe it's motor mounts causing this. The trans mount in the same truck shot itself a few weeks back. Started clanking real bad going into gear. Crawled under there and the layers had separated! Still it never vibrated.
The noise sounds like front u joint failure. The shudder while coasting/decelerating between 40&30 sounds like front u joint. The violent shaking is a mystery to me.
Here is a shot of the underside of the car as it sits in front of me. The driveshaft looks quite angled to me.
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