I used to have the same problem. Now I only use cast aluminum covers, as they are more rigid than stamped steel factory ones, and remain flat at the gasket surface. Then you RTV the gaskets to the COVER ONLY. Install them on the head, tighten slightly, and let the sealer begin to set up. After a few hours, I tighten them most of the way. Then when you remove them, the gasket stays on the cover! (Hopefully) You can put a thin coat of oil on the head at first, to make sure the gasket doesn't stick. This method also applies to covers that have been welded together from aluminum plate, like I have on my 496. Don't know much about this type of cover, but the welds are a work of art! Since I've been doing it this way, they never leak, and come apart easily. I have pulled the covers off 5 or 6 times, and they always seal great! Over and over again!