As far I know the OP installed correctly those washers.Flip your washers - to allow movement. Grease them up good with brake grease.
The down and dirty strut rod bushing install article.
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Yes on the control arm side, but the bushing end was about 40. It's a course thread with a locking nutDart505 you posted in a 12 year old thread. Kinda strange but not a big deal. As far as I know The torque is 105 ft. lbs.