It's good then. Just some polishing on it. Guess it was the light, and wear pattern that made it look coned.
The new one is on top. Should be OK - Yes, No??
If it works...it's good. Yeah, I know, that's not saying much. Something you want that will do it's job, for the life of the trans. Is the endplay checking out, now?
While I'm at it, just in case you don't know...okay?
On the converter/flexplate thing. The only correct way to mount them. First thing is to locate the balancing/line-up marks for both. Flexplate should only go one way, with the bolt holes all lining up. Should be marked for that line up.
Once you have that, you can bolt up the flexplate to the rear of the crank. It too only goes on one way. Use Loctite on the threads, and torque the bolts down. Rotate the engine by hand, until the marked bolt hole is down. (That will be the first bolt installed for flexplate to the converter.)
For the converter itself...once the transmission is completely done. Look past the pump seal, for the two driving lugs, in the pump. I use a pick, or small screwdriver, to rotate the lugs until their straight up, and down.
Then, after priming the converter with a pint of trans fluid, hold it up to the trans, the lug notches up, and down. Simply stab the converter shaft into the pump, lining up both sets of splines, and the pump lugs. Converter should spin freely, trans in neutral. You want the converter's 'marked bolt hole' down.
Use a small clamp, or something, near the bottom of the trans bell housing, to keep the converter from moving forward.
Then it's time to mount the trans to the engine. Completely bolt the trans to the engine. Then is when you install the bolts from flexplate to converter. The two timed bolt holes will be exposed, one on each part, and install that bolt. If everything is right, you should have to move the converter forward, around a 1/4"-1/2".
Once the first bolt is in, rotate the engine by hand, until the next bolt hole is exposed, put the bolt in...and go from there.
It's done like that, so no real weight is put on the plate.