I haven't read all the posts, but a single plane intake & a high rpm cam??
That will be part of the problem, plus you have a heavy car with a 3.23 axle.
Not a recipe for spinning tyres......
Sometimes, too, engines just do not come together 'right'... for no obvious reason.
Nick's garage has recently dynoed a 383 rebuilt to factory specs. Max tq is down about 40 ft/lbs from the factory rating. Much testing/adjusting has not improved it.
[1] Your plugs are OK, do NOT go colder. Too many people install cold plugs that are not needed & which then foul.
[2] You have the best carb on the engine now.
[3] 5-6" of vacuum at idle? Something wrong there, maybe wiped cam lobes or CR is very low.
[4] If vac is 5-6" at idle, the met rod pistons in the carb are probably bouncing around. To check, loosen piston cover & move slightly so that piston is visible. Tighten cover screw. Engine idling, put in gear; pistons should go down & not move. Not down, or any movement requires softer springs.