I gotta say guys, some of the responses here are really bumming me out. I respect all of you guys here on FBBO but sometimes I have to chime in and disagree a little bit. I really wish this issue wasn't painted with such a broad brush.
I think we can all agree that there are the losers out there that just want to sit around and get loaded. And, none of us would want to "pay" for their rehab or subsequent problems. But, on the other side of that coin, there are a lot of good people that genuinely need help with addiction.
I'll be six years sober(by the grace of god) in august. I can safely tell you that there is NO WAY I would have been able to get sober on my own. I'd be dead if I didn't have help. (Don't worry, no ones precious tax dollars had to pay for me). I've always worked and have never asked for any handouts from anyone but this was one thing I could not handle alone. I was lucky enough to have some great friends and family members. This isn't the case for everyone. I also have no male relatives living on my fathers side except my dad and he's on a fast track to be taken from us by addiction. All of his brothers and my grandfather are dead from booze. I'm not interested in arguing the semantics of "disease" or "heredity" regarding addiction but I'm sure you can guess how I feel about it.
The only reason I post this response here is because about 50% of the time I do, I get a pm from someone who is struggling and might have some questions or want some help. I've experienced this here, FABO, moparts, etc.
Sorry for the rant, but I promised myself when I got sober that I would help out where I could. I really don't feel that bitching about the people who are struggling is helpful. Again, not trying to start anything with anyone, I just wish people were a little more understanding about this issue. Thanks for listening, Cory