A couple of things to keep in mind.
First, depending on the era of music will also depend on how well the bass reproduction was done. Music from the 50's to the early and mid 70's was mastered pretty flat and not always mixed with a very wide stereo field so you hear a lot of instruments that are mixed to one channel or the other. Newer music from the 80's to now is and was mastered using the "loudness factor", meaning artificially adding effects to psychologically make you think its louder, and coupled with the addition of technology and mixing capabilities giving a wider stereo field, modern music production is so much better today.
Second, I would explore and test a wide range of music and adjust your eq to find a good setting or several good settings. I have 5 different settings on my eq depending on what type of music I am listening to.
Third, music sounds better at night, and no, its not a myth, its been proven, mainly due to the effect of your brain not processing as much information from your eyes allows your ears to hear more details.
pair of 6x9 speakers. Also, make sure you don't have a speaker out of phase that will kill the low end real quick. Also, I like to match speakers with an amp that is rated slightly higher than the speakers, that way, the amp runs more efficient and you get better quality sound at lower volumes, but be aware you can overdrive your speakers and potentially damage them with this type of configuration if you crank the volume too high.
And finally, and I am sure you know this already, adding a sub to an older car is going to expose a lot of things that rattle, especially the trunk lid, door panels, window mechanisms, rear deck, lock mechanisms, etc.
I hope you find the sweet spot for your system!!! I have a great system in my 06 Pontiac, and it sounds awesome without being too loud and people always ask if I am running a 10" subwoofer and are shocked to find out that I have two 8 inch JL audio subs in the rear deck that are open air subs.