stock shafts are not hard. they are far from being hardened.
the main reason i chase rocker geometry is to keep from tearing the valve guides up. the large scrub pattern of the ductile iron definitely can affect guide wear. there are some tutorials out on the web about setting geometry with a non-roller tip. the more lift the longer the scrub can be and geometry can become more critical. i think it's easier to check/set geometry with the heads on the bench than with the engine on a stand and virtually impossible with the engine in the car. i put checking springs on the heads, mount the rockers and shafts and then manually work the rockers with some typewriter carbon paper under the valve tip to show where the contact pattern is. if you try to set geometry with engine in the car about the only thing you can do is apply some layout dye on the valve tips, run the engine, then take the rockers off and look at the pattern. a lot less messy to just do it on the bench. there's a big difference in wear pattern on a non-roller vs roller tip. when that is solved then mount the heads on the short block and go after the push rod geometry.