Why women leave men they love – What every man needs to know

[Meep-Meep]

Steve, you might have missed the point of the article. The woman (or man) shouldn't be put in a position to wander away with someone else if things are working as they should.

 

[steve from staten island]

Again with all do respect to you as anyone thats helps others is a good person in my book. Some woman telling a co worker (you) that she'd leave her husband for a guy who would romance her is either coming on to the person or has marital issues and i question how much she loves her husband. Ive seen plenty of married people express how much they love there spouse but are still selfish when it comes to things they want for themselves. My biggest gripe is when i hear marriage is fifty fifty relationship. A close relative of mine told me young men today expect that and i told her marriage is not a business deal. Sometimes its fifty fifty and sometimes its seventy thirty. Its give and take
I scraficed all my life for my wife and kids. My wife did the same. Its the reason why I had to wait all this time to have a hobby car thats still not done and I'm 63. If my wife pulled that **** with me id take my share,pack my bags and leave and if i did the same to me she'd leave. Ok maybe i did miss the point but some of what i read was a bit much for me. But thats just me

 

[Canyon707]

Did you guys get married at age ten? You both look great!

Thanks for the kind words. I could never imagine my life without her. I met her when she was 10 I was 12 she moved into the neighborhood I didn't even like girls then. Baseball and Go Karts were the only thing that I had interest in. We became friends and I always loved the way she thought of things. We just grew closer. The funny thing is she really liked me. I remember sitting with her on her parents porch. She told me if I didn't kiss her we would be breaking up. I tried it and liked it. now 65 and me 67. Now two girls and three grand kids later I still do.

 

[Sonny Black]

who or whom .....cares?........women are like streetcars, there's always another coming.

besides, most are wacko ******* anyway.. and fart in bed, silent & deadly!:fart:


Sonny knows women...:eusa_doh: if you only knew!................:icon_rolleyes:

JMVHO

 

[mmissile]

What is that? A Cosmo article?

 

[Richard Cranium]

She wants you to feel her.

I try my best to feel her all the time, so I guess that makes me a GREAT husband!

 

[5.7 hemi]

Wow! Is this a man hater article or what? All touchy, feely! Just kidding! Men and women think differently, no getting around it, so lets move on.

 

[ECS]

Saw this today in passing and a thought popped into my head. If any guy thinks this is a bunch of hogwash.......

http://www.justiceschanfarber.com/marriage-why-women-leave-cheat/

That's way too much reading and mumbo jumbo just to get to the core of the problem. You don't need an "expert" or "therapist" to understand the facts! We had the truth conveyed to most of us in Kindergarden but the concept still didn't register with 99.9% of the People in this World. Read these two SHORT references that explain why ANY "relationship" goes bad.

Matthew 7:12
Luke 6:31

 

[Meep-Meep]

That's way too much reading and mumbo jumbo just to get to the core of the problem. You don't need an "expert" or "therapist" to understand the facts! We had the truth conveyed to most of us in Kindergarden but the concept still didn't register with 99.9% of the People in this World. Read these two SHORT references that explain why ANY "relationship" goes bad.

Matthew 7:12
Luke 6:31

Couldn't agree more.

 

[SteveSS]

My romance ended once we had kids. after that we were two oxen pulling the same cart. I love my kids wholeheartedly. But the wife took all her love and put it toward the kids. After that I was numb.

 

[Moparsmitty]

It just seems like people get married for all the wrong reasons. A few year ago a friend of mine married a woman because she was hot looking and, according to him, great in the sack. I would run into him around town and I'd ask him "where's your wife" and he'd just shrug and say "she's not interested in whatever I'm doing". Their marriage lasted all of three years. Not a surprise to anyone.
I've been married to the same woman for 42 years for a lot of reasons, but mostly because we have common interests and we are together most of the time. It worked for us.

 

[Budnicks]

Dad always told me
"marry an ugly & fat woman so when they leave you, your happy"
he's a 3 time loser, he must be really happy...He he ha ha

just kidding

I've done well just listening "occasionally",
spending time apart, have separate friends & common interests/friends too,
got to spice it up every once in a while, tell them they look good,
a little sugar goes much father than a little vinegar...
Neither of us is a 20 something or teenager anymore either,
we don't act like it either...

I have 5 sisters {well 4 now}, I see all types in all them too,
you can't put "all women" in a single category, likes or dislikes...

I know the ones I treated like queens on a pedestal, too nice,
left for someone who eventually treated them like crap, those types like a bad boy,
the ones I treated less than like an opulent queen, I can't seem to get rid of...LOL
I never treated any bad...
I was taught/molded more like, to respect women...

I'm not married thou...
My kids mother Lisa died a long time ago, shortly after my youngest was born...
Honey's my current relationship, a great girlfriend,
we live 100+ mile away from each other,
for over 8 years now, been together 15 years now, seems to work for us...

 

[Roger63]

Meet I will not doubt your observations and conclusions, however here is the exception. My daughter just left her husband for opposing reasons. He won't work he won't help around the house he commands my daughter like she is an enlisted newbee. He won't take care of his family and lastly he won't take responsibility.

 

[khryslerkid]

I feel like I'm watching an Oprah show.

Changing the channel!

 

[Roger63]

Oh come on kid dig deep we all know you need to share just kidding

 

[Meep-Meep]

I feel like I'm watching an Oprah show.

Changing the channel!

Gotta mix it up a bit to keep it interesting! Seems to be working too.

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Meet I will not doubt your observations and conclusions, however here is the exception. My daughter just left her husband for opposing reasons. He won't work he won't help around the house he commands my daughter like she is an enlisted newbee. He won't take care of his family and lastly he won't take responsibility.

Good for her for not putting up with that crap!

 

[Speedbird]

I think people stay married for different reason.
My advice to people is that someday the "passion" very well may leave, so marry your best friend.
Like Edith told Gloria when she was crying about the lack of you know what.
"The honeymoon has to end. Otherwise how will you get the house work done?"

Another great line from Jimmy Stewart in Shenandoah.
"I'm not asking if you love her. Do you like her?"

 

[steve from staten island]

Meet I will not doubt your observations and conclusions, however here is the exception. My daughter just left her husband for opposing reasons. He won't work he won't help around the house he commands my daughter like she is an enlisted newbee. He won't take care of his family and lastly he won't take responsibility.

So in other words he was a bum. Good for your daughter,with God's graces she will met someone who appreciates her

 

[roadrunner69440]

I agree with meep, and marriage is more than respect, love is more than respect , respect is something you give other people , love is what you give you Spouse . When two are married , too often they don't work as one and try to live seperate lives and this my friends , usually ends in disaster . Marriage is not just cut and dry, it's more fragile than that . Just my take, don't want to offend and if I did , sorry

 

[slepr1]

I agree with Meep. I think Steve is missing the point. My understanding of the topic is the councillor found one common reason why women leave. I agree and understand why. But not all women think this way, just allot of them. I think that's the way they are wired.


When men cheat its mostly just about sexual release, hence the reason many of the 'other woman' are not as pretty as the wife.

When women cheat its all about the feeling of being wanted, admired, fairy tail stuff. Many husbands forget this part of the relationship.

Those of you who have a wife that is easy going and doesn't need the affectionate husband 'that use to be'...you are a lucky sob. You are the lucky ones.