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Women that you dated and the RED flags you spotted....

This story isn't about women, but men. I know a mid 20ish yr old girl (through my kids) that has a boyfriend. Her bf and his best buddy have always slept in the same bed since they were young. They are now almost 30 and still sleep together. When she sleeps over he still crawls in bed with them. Not sure what happens when they have sex. I've asked if they were gay and most indications they were not. RED FLAG.
 
almost forgot...... she gets overly smashed drunk, passes out, and pees the bed...... once is an accident, 3 times is a pattern :wtf:
 
eldubb440 said:
almost forgot...... she gets overly smashed drunk, passes out, and pees the bed...... once is an accident, 3 times is a pattern :wtf:
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Got to tell you a story you may not believe relating to a wife who got ****-faced daily. Her husband I knew vaguely in HS nice enough guy; but definitely missing a few head bolts. Lived behind another HS bud in a subdivision, longer story here; but her routine was on the sofa getting blasted, chain smoking, and passing out - ahh so much so - her hubby didn't realize she had croaked on the sofa - dead for THREE days before getting the hint! Well, he was typically stone drunk as well spending most of his time in the basement listening to hard rock..
 
Ooops, I thought this was Redeyes you’ve spotted.

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I've been around long enough to notice many things to avoid. One of them is, a woman who can't be seen without makeup. Anywhere, anytime, from waking up to going to sleep. Especially one who's best friend is her mirror.
 
I hear another red flag is when the chick cuddles with her 20 year old son.
 
I'll add high maintenance women, needy clingy always primping
too many negatives, too many hangups
one thing to look good
it's another to be obsessed about it constantly

also
Hair color changes often
&/or weird colors, like pink blue purple etc. not natural/real hair colors

Tattoos at least visible tasteless ones, are a huge red-flag

I've had bad luck with women with ankle bracelets

or women that put you to a test, like it's some game

I had a lady cute as a bug, wanted to go out, I said sure
I asked her what she liked to do
she wouldn't say, she would pick me up in the morning
she said;
"I'll drive & we'll see how you like where we go & do"
we drove from Rancho Murieta to South Shore Tahoe
I had no clue where were going,
a long-ish ride for 2 people that didn't know **** about each other
really just met, I knew of her but not her personally...
I was thinking 'cool she an outdoors girl, going to Tahoe'
maybe boating or maybe gambling, walking or hiking etc.
(I'm not really a gambler)
she starts to turn into a campground area by South Tahoe City

I see a sign 'Shakespear on the Beach'
I'm thinking "oh **** this is going to be a long fucken' day"
I said to myself;
"I can do a lil' culture, see what it's like"
She is a cute lady, perky happy etc.
I'm a captive audience, in her car 100's of miles from home...
Lets see how this goes...
As I suspected it sucked ***, sitting on the grass for 2+ hrs
watching a crapy play seeing people, all having fun on the lake & beach etc.
Not really any good actors at all or good storyline (for me)
all fucked up 'weirdos version of Hamlet' too boot...
I was polite, sat thru it...

Thank god I was thinking, "it's finally ******* over"
doing something else going somewhere else, anywhere else...

We are walking off, mind you she's, not being 'at all romantic'
or holding my hand or even talking much even...
I tried to do all of it...
So I just went along, tried to make conversation...

We get back in her car, I ask if she wants to go get something to eat...
We go her choice *I'm paying, she goes to Subway
not really my choice, on a date, but a sandwich is ok...
She made a big deal about how the bread was cut
I figured great she's one of those & that they didn't have
a vegetarian menu, she's not a veg. either... Just bitching to bitch...

We eat, our lunch, get back in her car, still very lil' talking
drive all the way back to Murieta to my place (where she picked me up)
she attacks me like a nymphomaniac...
I'm a bit bewildered, stopped her asked why ?,
granted I'm not looking a gift-horse in the mouth, she was all over me
I commented we didn't really even talk
we didn't like the same food or even the same type of music etc.

She just says 'you passed the test'

I guess long days or torture & silence was the test :poke:
We eventually went inside my place, we had a couple of drinks...
Listened to my music mostly 70's rock or classic rock
not classic ****, like on her car stereo...
Eventually, after some heavy petting on the leather couch...
I bagged it & tagged it
we did the dirty deed, good for both of US, after a long *** day
laid there for a 1/2 an hr or so, didn't say much still & she got up,
got dressed (nice figure, well kept) & she went home...
Just like 2 animals

(yes I was a man whore, didn't really like her, she is a tad strange, but still did her)

She had a big tattoo over her butt crack,
another red-flag a tramp stamp
especially for a lady in her early 40's
not sure what it meant or was
sort of a winged dragon or an exotic eagle spread wings type deal
& she wore an ankle bracelet,
another red-flag
I should have known...

I never (she never called me either) really had talked much
to her, again...
I saw her a few times at the CC regularly, saying hi & smile in passing...
She was a reg. golfer, I knew all the ladies in her group
or their husbands...
They were a different crowd, sort of loud & a bunch of gossipers...
I was one of the rare single men at the CC...
I even danced with her a few times at Italian night dinners
& the afterparty at the club, Wed. nights...
I did play in a golf tournament with her a few months later
never another tryst...
I was already in another relationship anyway...
 
Budnicks said:
I'll add high maintenance women, needy clingy always primping
too many negatives, too many hangups
one thing to look good
it's another to be obsessed about it constantly

also
Hair color changes often
&/or weird colors, like pink blue purple etc. not natural/real hair colors

Tattoos at least visible tasteless ones, are a huge red-flag

I've had bad luck with women with ankle bracelets

or women that put you to a test, like it's some game

I had a lady cute as a bug, wanted to go out, I said sure
I asked her what she liked to do
she wouldn't say, she would pick me up in the morning
she said;
"I'll drive & we'll see how you like where we go & do"
we drove from Rancho Murieta to South Shore Tahoe
I had no clue where were going,
a long-ish ride for 2 people that didn't know **** about each other
really just met, I knew of her but not her personally...
I was thinking 'cool she an outdoors girl, going to Tahoe'
maybe boating or maybe gambling, walking or hiking etc.
(I'm not really a gambler)
she starts to turn into a campground area by South Tahoe City

I see a sign 'Shakespear on the Beach'
I'm thinking "oh **** this is going to be a long fucken' day"
I said to myself;
"I can do a lil' culture, see what it's like"
She is a cute lady, perky happy etc.
I'm a captive audience, in her car 100's of miles from home...
Lets see how this goes...
As I suspected it sucked ***, sitting on the grass for 2+ hrs
watching a crapy play seeing people, all having fun on the lake & beach etc.
Not really any good actors at all or good storyline (for me)
all fucked up 'weirdos version of Hamlet' too boot...
I was polite, sat thru it...

Thank god I was thinking, "it's finally ******* over"
doing something else going somewhere else, anywhere else...

We are walking off, mind you she's, not being 'at all romantic'
or holding my hand or even talking much even...
I tried to do all of it...
So I just went along, tried to make conversation...

We get back in her car, I ask if she wants to go get something to eat...
We go her choice *I'm paying, she goes to Subway
not really my choice, on a date, but a sandwich is ok...
She made a big deal about how the bread was cut
I figured great she's one of those & that they didn't have
a vegetarian menu, she's not a veg. either... Just bitching to bitch...

We eat, our lunch, get back in her car, still very lil' talking
drive all the way back to Murieta to my place (where she picked me up)
she attacks me like a nymphomaniac...
I'm a bit bewildered, stopped her asked why ?,
granted I'm not looking a gift-horse in the mouth, she was all over me
I commented we didn't really even talk
we didn't like the same food or even the same type of music etc.

She just says 'you passed the test'

I guess long days or torture & silence was the test :poke:
We eventually went inside my place, we had a couple of drinks...
Listened to my music mostly 70's rock or classic rock
not classic ****, like on her car stereo...
Eventually, after some heavy petting on the leather couch...
I bagged it & tagged it
we did the dirty deed, good for both of US, after a long *** day
laid there for a 1/2 an hr or so, didn't say much still & she got up,
got dressed (nice figure, well kept) & she went home...
Just like 2 animals

(yes I was a man whore, didn't really like her, she is a tad strange, but still did her)

She had a big tattoo over her butt crack,
another red-flag a tramp stamp
especially for a lady in her early 40's
not sure what it meant or was
sort of a winged dragon or an exotic eagle spread wings type deal
& she wore an ankle bracelet,
another red-flag
I should have known...

I never (she never called me either) really had talked much
to her, again...
I saw her a few times at the CC regularly, saying hi & smile in passing...
She was a reg. golfer, I knew all the ladies in her group
or their husbands...
They were a different crowd, sort of loud & a bunch of gossipers...
I was one of the rare single men at the CC...
I even danced with her a few times at Italian night dinners
& the afterparty at the club, Wed. nights...
I did play in a golf tournament with her a few months later
never another tryst...
I was already in another relationship anyway...
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" 50 Shades of Budnicks" is the title to this ^ novel, by the way.
 
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