Not looking for sympathy here. It is what it is. she has to take 19 pills a day just remain above ground and is in constant pain. Nausea, dizzy, irritable bowel, severe joint pain. You name it, she has it. Or will surely catch / get it. Bad genes. What 'chu gonna do? Now she has type 2 diabetes as well...
I'm so sorry to hear that...
I know you don't want sympathy...
It's for her mostly...
cars will come & go
let it sit or do what you think is best
I trust & will support whatever you decide to do...
as a caregiver myself, as we've talked a bunch
I completely understand too
sometimes it's good to just get it out
tell her best wishes from all of US

we are thinking of her & you too
man one of my favorite build threads to check-in
& read from time to time, cool build nobody is doing
innovative what parts & styles etc.
Design is thinking "way Out of the proverbial box"

for sharing something so personal with US
I know it's tough...
yours truly Bart