Paul Walker was also an accomplished actor but now I expect him to jump in a ricer every time I see him on film. RIP ...
Yes, it is such a tragedy, all based on the wrong place at the wrong time that even if repeated, could have a better outcome. James Dean was another, who knows what Walker’s or his future might have been.
If we leave a few minutes early or later, could be all the difference with living or dying. Allow me to share a story. Stood up in a HS buddy’s wedding eons ago. His kid brother and I, in our tuxedo’s before trekking to the church, challenged each other on a high-bar in his parent’s backyard he used to use for gymnastics practice. We were both in gymnastics in HS, he was a couple years younger. Lol, we took off our coats and began the high-bar antics until his dad came out telling us we were nuts. He said great, kill yourselves right before Alan’s wedding ceremony.
Sadly, it wasn’t even a month later, Al’s kid brother was killed in a car wreck going to work in his ’64 Chevelle vert. I knew the intersection well as I crossed it countless times too, going to work. The morning sun could be totally blinding cresting the hill. It was assumed the sun blocked his vision or just momentarily blinded, not seeing the red light. Was awful, he was tossed out over the top of the windshield, even though the top ‘was up’ when crashing. Was shocked his folks wanted an open casket. Was a handsome guy, engaged to be married the next summer. Standing at his casket, shaking my head, Good Lord, was so obvious how they
tried to put his face back together, well, should a been closed. While I was there, his dad came up next to me – recalling his lecture to us saying “And there I was worried you two were going to kill yourselves on the high-bar.” Being a father, no way I can imagine the pain a parent has losing has their kid, sadly I’ve attended too many wakes when this was the case.