The stalling issue sounds just like the issue I had, had dirt in my carb, small strand of fabric. I swore it was clean because I rebuilt it, I'm dumb.
The headlight issue reminds me of another issue I had, the left side of my dash lights didn't work, the left directional indicator stayed on, and the right front directional didn't work. NAPA solid state flasher solved the dash issue, and makes the directionals work perfectly. Front right wasn't grounded due to corrosion on the housing.
I'm thinking the dimmer switch and light switch can also cause headlight issues.
I wrote up on some thread before what I did with the charge wire. I believe it was a 10 gauge wire directly to the starter solenoid with 6 inches of fusable link. I cut out the original black charge wire from the alternator, moved the red wire from the starter relay from G to F. Now power comes into the car via the black wire. I disconnected the ammeter, spliced the black wire to the Accessory Circuit Breaker.
The red wire no longer does anything, so I taped it off at the ammeter, and took it out of the bulkhead and taped off.
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