I was a terrible student and a wild child. I was always angry, ready to burst at any time. It would be decades before I learned and understood about Asperger Syndrome and depression. Back then you were just labelled “bad”. Anyway…
I started drinking heavily at 12, drugs a few years later. Couldn’t seem to find myself. But a few people saw potential and some value in me. For example, my best friend has been so for just over fifty years now. He was the exact opposite of me as kids, he was a non drinker, no drugs Christian. My high school principal, who I caused much grief to still sends me a Christmas card and personal letter every year for over forty years.
I started working real jobs at 12, I always made good money even though I could piss it away as quick as I made it. When most kids my age were making twenty five or fifty cents a hour babysitting I got a job as a school janitor for $4.25. Then I was the school audio visual tech for ten bucks a hour when many adults were making that, or less. This was the mid seventies and I was in my mid teens. But I was smart enough at least to only spend the money I had, never was in debt and still am not. I married a smart, hard working wife who is wise with money and keeps me on the straight and narrow with it. We paid cash for two houses and buy all of our vehicles with cash.
I drifted from job to job and couldn’t seem to find my calling, so to speak. I got a job in the Alberta oil patch as a painter, and began to learn my trade. The Asperger’s gives me OCD and crazy attention to detail that makes me a good painter, and the best masking and prep person around. When I got married in ‘94 I moved back north and got a job as a drywaller and house painter. Again, the attention to detail and OCD about details makes me a top notch taper. I’m not the fastest, but my work is impeccable and people are willing to pay a premium for perfect work.
I got a job with the government and have been their school and prison painter for twenty three years. Affirmative action has made it very difficult and discouraging to work for the government as I am just another effing white guy in what is essentially a gigantic Indian reservation.
So this past year the hospital snapped me up. They are not governed by the same policies as the territorial government so they can hire a white guy, no problem. They literally thank me every day for working for them, and I couldn’t be happier. I still do a few side jobs but only the ones that appeal to me. Currently I’m the go to guy to paint lines in parking lots. Laying out the lines is not as simple as it seems but I have a knack for it and thus my services are in demand. I’m 64 this year, I have no intention of retiring. I enjoy what I do and I’m at that stage in life where I do pretty much what I want. I paint in the summer and go to our place in Mexico in the fall. I work a bit in the winter then go back to Mexico in the spring. I plan to keep doing this as long as I can.