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So is getting ghosted the new norm?

It's not just getting people to come to your home. We placed a want ad a few weeks ago for a new hire. Out of nearly 60 responses, we weeded it down to 4 and we talked with them on the phone and arranged for them all to come in for interviews. Two didn't show up.
I really and truly wish I was not 100% and unemployable. It is a candy store out there for people who really WANT to work. The jobs are falling out of the sky. I remember in 1974/75 as I was getting ready to graduate High School I looked everywhere for a job, any job, in a 50 mile radius. There were none. Not just because I was a kid, there actually were not any. I joined the Army at 17. As long as the Federal Government is willing to continue to pay people to stay home, they will do so. Why go to work when you can make $40-75,000 a year at home. playing video games in your pajamas?
 
I still, after 11 years, get daily come on's from the aviation industry looking for pilots and crew. I sent one an e mail explaining my situation and they sent back that they would keep sending me the ads because it was so bad that they would take anyone with any experience, they hoped I might someday "change my mind" and decide to scrap my benefits and come to work. WTF? Change my mind? That's the problem, combat "changed my mind" for me, permanently. lol. It's not going away....
 
Sadly, think this problem is going to get worse before it gets better (hoping better is somewhere on the horizon someday). One stat I read says 10,000 boomers reach age 65 each day. More, however, are retiring earlier, some of which is related to the pandemic. Another stat indicated that about 27 million boomers (as of 3rd qtr 2020) are retired…3.2 million retired btw 2019 and 2020. What’s this say about replacing these folks…when I have been hearing about doing so being a bitch for the past 10 years as the first wave of boomers hit retirement age? Add…the complaints often were finding qualified people. Before the pandemic there were reportedly over 4 million jobs open – vacant unable to be filled by qualified workers. Today the complaint is finding someone that can still fog up a mirror.

What has been the priority with many schools…including the one I attended in the past couple years? Well it was forming committees, printing/mailing flyers, meetings to rename the school or their mascot! This is in GD, so no further expounding. However, our schools and communities and such, should start building career paths to fill the technical/trade jobs as a major priority. Get this going with kids in high-school and middle schools. Even ‘at risk’ youth in inner-city schools to entice them toward great jobs that will earn them a nice living. Every community and school should be working on this…we should be hearing about it in the news daily across the country. The typical curriculum needs to change. At one time the USA ranked number one in education…today it’s around 25! Wow, there are 24 nations that are ahead of the USA?
Yeah, deeper issues in this mix…but get kids on a good start when the time is ripe for this in their lives…MO
 
Giving money is a def no-go. I’m not supporting anyone’s habit. I'll grab you something to eat. More friggan jobs out there now but they’d rather stand there for hours, begging. I’m I missing something? I don’t get it.
they want the hand out, not the work to earn it

they've been programmed/indoctrinated,
in that way for the past 30 years
since 1992 (farther back even, but more prevalent since)
 
In 7th, 8th, and 9th grades, the boys took 4 semesters of drafting, 4 semesters of metal shop, and 4 semesters of wood shop. A fraction of us would go on to work in the Trades, but most use some of what they learned around the house. Some do woodworking, some weld on rusty old cars after their day job.
The girls took Homec (Home Economics).
The girls didn't need to fix a chair and the boys don't need to learn how to cook.
 
Guys I’m the generation behind most of you, I’m 46. I stand and scratch my head and wonder wtf is going on! I recall hearing Osama telling kids go be a doctor or a lawyer and even seeing schools push kids away from blue collar and look what we have! Entitled kids and folks that won’t work and illegals coming in by the masses driving down the wages for all. It’s a perfect government controlled storm! My kids work one just made it to an EMT at 19 the other is going for accounting.. WTH happened we go to war we have nobody to build the planes tanks etc.! China will rape us every which way. This is nuts turn the tit off and get up and go to work! What’s left in another 15 years? Dirty hands... clean money! Be proud to make your own living! A hand up not a hand out!
 
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