My Catholic high school did not have shop classes and I was an average student at best as most subjects didn't really interest me. I excelled at courses I was interested in periodically, but there were only a few. I knew I was a tinkerer from a young age but nothing was offered in school to educate me in the things that interested me unfortunately. My father forced me to take courses that I didn't want because he thought that was best. He never really took the time to discuss my future with me nor how to help plan a path to educate me in a way that best suited my abilities, likes and personality. He was old school, coming from a one room schoolhouse with multiple aged students. I did what I was told and hated it. My plan was to become an auto mechanic but I couldn't even go to a vocational school at the time because my marks were too high to be accepted. What a stupid rule our system had in place.
I ended up in the body shop of a GM dealer as a car cleanup/jockey, which would be as close as I could get to the auto business. I asked what I had to do to become a mechanic apprentice, but was told that this was not possible since I worked in the body shop, This after I'm showing their mechanic apprentice how to align a clutch on the dealer's race car at the tender age of 21. Crazy! So I said fine, how about I start as an apprentice bodyman. It is dirty, dusty work, but it would keep me close to what I loved doing I thought. I was told sorry, we're not taking apprentices. So I left for an opportunity to become an electrician. this I regret though as I dislike construction. It wasn't until I learned industrial controls that the trade became interesting and challenging. The better I got at it, led me into management of it but which I disliked. Too much pressure and not much fun managing guys as it is troubleshooting a control system. I didn't realize at the time that once you leave the 'floor' and step into management, you may be perceived as being disconnected from the trade which is what I'm struggling with today. I too believed the bs that if you learn to work with your hands, you'll always have work. It's not entirely true imo.
Parents should take the time to understand what their kids like and dislike, where their interest lies and help point them on a direction that they will be happy with. Whether in a trade or not, but we definitely needs trades programs available in all schools. I knew my kids were not going to be suitable for the trades, so I tried to steer them into fields they would like. It kind of sucks, because I have no one to share my passion for working on machines nor any one to leave my tools too when I'm gone.