Worst night of my life

[Hey-O]

She sounds like a total nutcase....best advice yet is to run like hell. Don't even think about trying to make up with her.

Being treated like you were is a big enough red flag. There'll be another woman that will be much nicer....soon.

X2. Before I got married I went through women like underwear, till one made me stop in my tracks. That was over 46 years ago and I just woke up and she was still here, next to me. You'll know when you find her, it shouldn't be a job and if it is, move on. At your age, love is a hard dick. Remember the old bull young bull story and calm down. I can't believe I just said that...............

 

[toolmanmike]

Hi FBBO
I want to get rid of something and I need help.
A lot of you guys are in older age so you collected more experiences than me with 21.
I try to make it short:
A few weeks ago I met a girl on a dating platform and we understood each other pretty good. At first it was nothing serious sexual wise but we saw a possibility of a relationship in the future if we get to know each other better. So she suggested to get out clubbing together with her girl-bestfriend (they share an apartment together). That night there was no kissing or dancing together hand in hand because she said we should take it slowly and not overrun anything. I respected that. Later at the bar table there was a very drunk guy just running around like crazy. After few minutes he ran towards us, grabbed my date and wanted to dance with her. She was smiling and didn’t seemed turned off by the drunk guy. I stepped between them and wanted to smack him in the face for that. My only thought was: „oh so you said to me let’s get to know each other better slowly and then you just take the most silly man in the room and dance with him like I am invisible for you??!“
He went off fast and my date was pissed af. 10 minutes later the girls wanted to drive home. At their apartment I had not even parked and her girlfriend jumped out of the car. I shut off the motor and as soon as that she said „WHERE ARE YOU GOING? WE HAVE TO TALK!“
So the next 5 minutes our discussion only contained of „WE ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP I CAN DANCE WITH WHOEVER I ******* WANT!“ I tried to explain her I felt very abused and fooled by her. She got angry and so me. I stepped out my car and SLAMMED the door that made her even more rude. So she stepped out and screamed at me on the street at 3am. I stayed calm and suggested I drive home and let this all settle over the night. But no chance. 20 minutes long I tried to tell her that it’s not okay what she had done and that I felt very fooled. She didn’t cared at all. After I emptied my beer I had at the club at the nearest bush I couldn’t take it any longer. Went to my car started the engine and just wanted to get home. I was too slow to lock the door so she ripped it open. I said very loudly „I DONT CARE ABOUT THIS DISCUSSION NOW! JUST PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE GOOD NIGHT!“
she responded: „WELL I LEAVE YOU ALONE FOREVER NOW YOU SUCH A ******** ONLY BECAUSE YOU CANT GET ANY GIRLS I DONT HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU! DONT DARE SHOWING HERE UP AGAIN!“

at home I saw I was blocked everywhere from both girls. My blood is boiling and she still owes me 40€
I can‘t sleep
I like her and now ways are parted at the worst way possible.
So I can’t get in contact anymore and I‘m the lifelong asshole now.
Do you guys think I should throw an apology letter in her mailbox (I know I don’t have anything to apologize and I already did it several times for nearly hitting the drunk guy)

I like her a lot and we always had a great time when meeting up
These scenes can’t get out of my head it’s driving me really crazy.

What can I do to calm myself and get her to know how I felt about all that?

Run. Life is too short to chase after someone like that.

 

[wahya]

Dear Abby, I have this friend that got really lucky last night. The girl he was with showed her true colors and he is upset.
What should he do?

Run and don’t look back.
PS check and see if her friend would like to go out.
Abby

My thoughts too. You didn't say what she was doing trough all this and what did she look like. Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[Hey-O]

PS check and see if her friend would like to go out.
Abby

It's been my experience that birds of a feather flock together!!

 

[WileE]

Run, run away from that hell as fast as you can. ( Edit: my reply written before reading any others. As you can see, I've only echoed the clear sentiment here very precisely. )

 

[69Bee]

Go watch "Fatal Attraction" and realize you dodged a bullet. Look elsewhere...

 

[Runcharger]

Man: Thank your lucky stars! You were so lucky to see what a piece of work she was right at the start. Flush that one and be happy. You should be happy you found out so soon. Sometimes it takes a while to get past the acting and it gets more complicated (think rape charges, abuse charges, unwanted pregnancy etc.) You got lucky. There are great girls out there, don't waste any time on nut cases.

 

[Nxcoupe]

Ok, couple a things here, first and foremost, I think this guy's account got hacked, english is hotrible in this post and the one linked in one of the posts above, sounds like Thai or Indian by the way the language is hammered.
Secondly, you are a better man than I, she would have been left standing in the club wondering where I went. Disrespect shows a lack of caring and well, respect, so I pay back as I've been given.
But again, doubtful this is real.

 

[wahya]

Yes,hotrible.

 

[WileE]

< from 1929 ??

 

[moparsaver]

Lotta fish in the ocean…. Go fishing!!

 

[69 Sleeper Bee]

You may not realize it now but you are the luckiest man in the world.

 

[1967coronet]

Be the fun guy at the bar.
Not the looking for love on the internet guy.
I look at what I post an think back to when most of us were young.
50 years ago you met them at bars , ball games , school dances , friends hooked you up.
Now .... its like shopping for tires ,
Like everyone posted , you dodged a bullet, I'm with Mr Cook, nail her friend lol.

 

[Basket case]

RUN Forrest RUN!! You dodged a bullet. Don't waiste another second on her in your thoughts.

 

[Fran Blacker]

Hit the Road Jack and Don't Look Back No More No More.

 

[Joshmopar11x]

Best thing, like everyone else said. Kick that door shut and never, NEVER look back or question it. She sounds awful just from that snip it alone. She's not a team player, not in it for you. Don't write her a letter. Move on like you couldn't care less. Don't apologize for something you didn't do, ever. Don't give her any further reasons to love her **** personality.

 

[Fran Blacker]

Chances are you won't meet wife material in a bar.

 

[eldubb440]

Need some Women advice guys.

that one went 25 pages

 

[themechanic]

Chances are you won't meet wife material in a bar.

Or on a dating website.

 

[eldubb440]

I actually feel for young guys these days....... it's nearly impossible to compete with social media

unless you're Hell bent on having kids, relationships are highly over rated anyway

I didn't get married till I was 48