What I hammered home in my 3 girls & my niece,
my son & my nephew
& I know a few people think online crap is the deal too
If they are on an online site, looking for a man/woman
you can pretty much bet they are ********, in one aspect or another
(men or women)
or they are losers
or
are loudmouths or just arrogant ********
(sad part is they don't think they are)
or married & then divorced way too young
(reaks of desperation)
or married cheating on their spouse
(sad shitty people)
or had kids way too young, waiting for them at home
(looking for daddy #2-#3)
or just fat/lazy usually too
or the bitter (smartasses) argumentative losers
(they don't think they are either)
or
have some serious baggage, with no personality to boot
there's always reasons why -
they are on a website & why they don't have a GF/BF already
& not out in the real world, to get a real date face to face...
Mingling, human contact eye to eye or face to face
(not on a phone or texting or over a computer etc.)
always an excuse
Same with men looking on an online site
for a lady/girl IMHFO
(usually desperate or too shy)
that want to take the easy route, it doesn't rarely work like that
grow a damn pair, get out & mingle or it
cries/screams a loser
or way too introverted & probably a smart-***/know-it-all or jerks
(you know the type, bad combo)
or that sit at home alone drinker, a drunk/doper, fires one up
1st thing the morning
(almost the worst)
or lonely/because they are too lazy
to get out & look,
that try to take the easy way out on everything
(truly sad people)
or recently divorced or a 2-3 time (or more) loser
(run Forest run)
or on the rebound
(dangerous & sometimes fun, but won't last)
or an ex-con
(stay away, far away)
or unemployed
or workaholic
(maybe worse)
or fat loser
(sorry, no fat chicks)
or a wino or drunk/stoner
(no drunks/druggies that make excuses for using it)
or all the above
not 100% but a majority of the time I guarantee it...
There's always a good reason why...
Go out in the world & meet them, say hi to anyone
there's plenty out there
& not texting not swiping right BS = LOSER
I used to go after the best-looking one in a bunch of women
always some extrovert loudmouth #5-6 at best, running blocker/wing-broad for them...
Nobody asked them (the attractive cuties) out or to dance etc.
can't get past the loudmouth ******* (their protective or jealous cockblockers)
when out & about, just go around them, they are the 2 am broads, maybe
You don't know if you don't try
fake wedding or engagement rings are phony a bunch of times too,
to keep the bar-fly douchebags from hitting on them
People seem to think they (good-looking/attractive ones)
must have a BF (or GF today) already
because they look cute or beautiful or have a smoking body
albeit they did quite a few times, you don't know, if you don't ask
there's usually a good reason why they don't have a BF too
beware
but;
In my experience more times than not, they were available
or single & looking
OR they are STUCK UP 'think their **** don't stink'
or HAVE A STICK UP THEIR ***
you're better off with that one/them...