Read my story....?..
Well my first and my second language is both Italian and English, let me explain.... my parents came here as poor imigrants in the late 50s from poverty struck region of north east Italy, eating cats was indeed an option at that time over there, tasted like chicken they say...
They came here in 58 on a long boat ride like most at that time, I was born in 61, poor *** as we where, my dad worked his *** off to provide.
They spoke no English at alll.... my dad worked with other Italian imigrants and my mom went shopping with Italians...
In our houses to his day we only speak Italian! And damn proud of it!
So I can say Italiano e la mia prima lingua!
My wife...well I met her at my cousens wedding when I was in Italy back in 93, was crazy enoughf to ask her to marry me, brought her here on a fiance visa and we have been married for 30 years now
besides Italian and english I also speak Friulano, thats my moms native language from the small area she grew up in.
Unless you are native American, your people came from somewhere else!
You only think your American!